Moving is undoubtedly one of the most exciting and stressful things you can do, and all that is heightened when there are children involved. Fortunately, most children easily adapt to change, but it’s the actual changing that makes all of this so hard. There are ways to smooth out the process and keep your kids as happy and comfortable as possible during this crazy adventure.
- Ask for Help. There’s going to be a lot happening on moving day and you’re probably not going to want to worry about your little ones. Ask for a friend or family member to come over and spend time with them while you load the truck, or ask if they could take your kids out for a bit. It’ll eliminate a lot of your stress knowing they’re off having fun somewhere.
- Keep them Involved. Though they may not be the most helpful moving buddies, it’s important that your children are always aware of the process. Make sure they take part in packing up their own stuff, and give them little jobs to help with the rest of the preparation. This opens room for questions, conversations, and makes them a part of the process.
- Pack Their Stuff Last and Unpack it First. It’s helpful to keep things as normal as possible for your kids in the days leading up to the move, so other than a few unnecessary things, try to leave their stuff for last. Then, see if it can’t get put in the truck last so that it can all come out first and you can get them set up right away. If they are able to be in and create their own space right off the bat it can minimize their discomfort in your new home.
- Make Sure they Know Where You Sleep. Especially if you have younger children you’ll want to make sure they’re at least somewhat familiar with where things are before going to bed on that first night. The last thing you probably want is for your half-asleep child to freak out in the middle of the night when they wake up somewhere new and can’t find you.
- Stay Positive and Have Fun. As stressful as moving can be, there are still ways to come together as a family and turn it into something fun. If one person’s stressed out and frantic it can affect the mood of everyone around them, so do your best to keep a level head and look at all the joy that comes with this exciting new experience.